How do you find your purpose? How do you find out what you are here for? What’s the reason for your very existence?
I think when it comes to, asking what is my life purpose? that’s not the real question.
The question is. How do I invest and how should I spend my time on something important?
That’s the question. How do I spend my time on something important?
How do I live my life? That’s important.
That’s actually the question. So, how do you do that?
How to Find the Purpose of Your Life?
First, I think the very question you should ask yourself is –
What do you love to do?
When you do that thing, you just forget about time.
You for forget about to eat. Time just disappears.
What are you so passionate about?
When you do it, it doesn’t feel like work.
It doesn’t, you don’t even care if you get paid to do it, you love doing it, that’s your joy that’s your passion.
What you love to do.
That’s question number one.
Assuming you have that. Now, if you don’t you cannot even answer that question, “Shitanshu, I don’t know what I love to do.”
What it tells me is you haven’t tried enough things.
You haven’t tried enough things that you didn’t like, that’s why you don’t know what do you like to do.
So, what do you love to do?
The second question is, what are you good at?
What’s your natural talent?
That when you do that thing that you love, somehow, well people will tell you, well, you’re so natural, you’re so good at it.
Wow, like I don’t even know how you do that. That’s your natural talent.
Your strength. So, what’s your natural talent? That’s the second question.
The third question you need to ask to find your life purpose is who do you like to help?
Who do you like to help? When it comes to life purpose, you got to think you know to kinda find it to identify what it is you need to think bigger than yourself.
You need to think bigger than what is around you.
You know, think bigger than just survival.
You need to think bigger than just paying the bills.
You know, think about not just internal me, me, me, me, me, you gotta think about who do I enjoy helping?
Who do I enjoy serving? It’s very very important.
Because only when you’re through giving and through serving and through contributing do you get satisfaction.
You get joy.
If you just do it for your own ego, you just do it for your own gain, you just do it for me, me, me, me, me.
Yes, you’ll get achievement, but you won’t get fulfillment.
And that’s the problem. Sometimes people they, they try to win the race for fulfillment, running on a track of achievement.
And it doesn’t work. They are two very different things. So the third question. Who do you enjoy helping?
And the four questions, the number four question is, not just who do you enjoy helping, who do you enjoy hanging around with?
Who do you enjoy spending time with?
Cause think about that, the people that you spend time with, at the end of the day, I think life, it’s made up of experience, it’s made up of memories.
And at the end of the day that’s all that is. It’s not things, it’s not possessions, it’s, by the time you lay on your death bed all you remember are just memories.
That’s it. The people you spend time with. The people you’ve helped.
What’s your legacy? That’s what legacy is.
When you die, who is going to your funeral? Who is gonna be, who is gonna remember you?
What are they gonna say about you? And for most people, it’s very sad.
They probably don’t have much good things to say about you.
Because your whole life you actually haven’t impacted a lot of people.
You haven’t helped a lot of people. You just, going through life paying the bills, doing my thing, going to a job. You know, have a mortgage.
So at your funeral maybe you have two, three, five people. You know, some family members and that’s it.
And that’s not what life is about. I don’t think that’s what life is about.
So, life is not so much about finding yourself, it’s about creating yourself.
I never, I don’t even know even unto this point, is it of my life purpose is to impact job people, impact people to help them see, to become a better version of themselves.
That’s what I do.
To help them become a better version of themselves.
To inspire you, to motivate you, to give you tools, to become a better man, a better woman, a better husband, a better wife, a better father, a better son. To help you in building part-time multiple income sources online.
That’s what I do. That’s my mission. That’s my purpose.
I help people to make money online using digital marketing, blogging, social media, and a lot more.
I have tried enough careers in life and I find that okay, you know what, I love doing this, I get joy from doing this.
I love to help people. I feel satisfaction when some one starts making money online part-time.
And then as I do more, of course, I enjoy doing it, I get better at it, and then people say – I’m good at it, I’m impacting people. I’m helping other people and I enjoy being around infopreneurs.
I enjoy just having conversations with people who are go-getters, who are hungry, who are, who wanna make something out of themselves.
Who wants to provide a better future for their family.
Those conversations I love. I hate to have conversations with people who are like, doom and gloom, bitching about the sports game, bitching about their life, bitching about their work, I don’t have time for that.
So I know that’s what I don’t want, to spend my time with those people.
So naturally, I gravitate towards spending time with people who are positive.
Spending time with people who are business oriented. Who are, who have the abundance mindset.
That’s why. That’s how this whole thing, that’s how I form, how I identify, how I found my life purpose.
So don’t think it’s that too complicated. You can’t find your purpose by just sitting there and thinking “Oh yeah, you know, Shitanshu, what is my life purpose?” How do I know?
- Do something.
- Try something.
- Try more things.
- Try that, you know what, that doesn’t work for me.
Okay, try something else.
- That doesn’t work for me.
- Try something else.
- That doesn’t work for me.
- Try something else.
Oh, okay, I like this and people will recognize me for this.
- I’m good at this.
- I’m helping people.
- I’m impacting people.
So, it’s very interesting to find the purpose you gotta think beyond in yourself.
You need to think bigger than yourself. More than just you.
It has to be about more than you. Because that’s how you leave a legacy.
When you can do that, that’s a life purpose. It may not be a one-line.
It may not be so clear of my purpose is to blank, but you will know.
When you’re doing something you love, when you’re doing it with the people you wanna do it with, when you know you’re helping people, when you are providing a good life for yourself and your family.
When you are good at it. That’s life.
What more do you want? That’s a good life to me.
If you can consistently, every day, experience those types of emotions,
joy, satisfaction, pride, not pride, not ego, pride from doing good work,
pride from knowing that you are good at what you do, you take pride in what you do, that the outcome, the product, and you can, you know you’re making an impact, you know you are serving people and you know you are secure and you know you are providing a financial, a solid financial future for your family.
What more do you want? That’s about it. It doesn’t get more.
It doesn’t get more simpler than that. That’s really what life is about. It’s not so “woo or foo foo” it’s a purpose. Here’s a statement that what your life is about.
And your purpose might change. My purpose changed.
That’s how you find your life purpose.